Recently I was in a conversation with other ministers and the topic of after-service tea came up. Someone commented about the drinks given to the minister as she/he stands at the door. Er, sorry, run that by me again - brought to you?
Usually at the end of our service I walk to the back and collect a cup of tea for one or two of the more frail folk and then one for myself. A few weeks back I did an experiment, as none of the frail folk were there, and waited to see if I was brought any tea.... no! Today I tried again, delivering tea to a frail person and then spending time with someone who needed a little TLC. Again, no tea.
So, is this a local thing or are other churches similar? I can recall, as a student, having to juggle polystyrene cups of tea whilst shaking hands with vigorous-hand-shakers, which is rather hazardous, but at least I didn't have to wait until I got home and boil my own kettle (though at least that way the tea is the colour I like it!). What happens where you are? And if you aren't a minister, how is your minister cared for after giving their best in leading worship?
Overall then, not 'more tea, vicar?' just 'tea, minister?' please...