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A Skinny Fairtrade Latte in the Food Court of Life - Page 1131

  • All Quiet at 24/7

    This week has been the six monthly 24/7 Prayer Event in the town that embraces Dibley.  It is, I think, the fourth 24/7 we have done and it has been by far the quietest.  In 9 hours of hosting, I had 3 visitors, all of them in the same 1 hour slot.  Many hosts have seen no-one, and we have been wondering why this might be.

    In recent months one of the stalwart clergy has moved on, and there have been no visitors from that church.  Another minister has stepped aside from this initative due to other pressures and again, no one has attended from that church.  How much are these things linked to the minister?  It's a question I constantly ask myself in relation to Dibley initiatives and, as time goes on, try to adopt a more 'hands off' approach (difficult when you are a born organiser!)

    I do wonder about the frequency and necessary energy to sustain these 24/7 events.  I have been less involved in this one than in the past, as have other ministers, simply because we cannot sustain the time commitment, essentially an additional week's work (in previous events I've hosted for over 30 hours on top of my week's work - it's too much).  Maybe an annual event would be more sustainable, or shorter 24/2 or 24/1 events (since experience shows that most of the same visitors come whatever the overall duration).

    I guess having few visitors had its plus points - I did get to read a couple of books on 'Emerging Church' stuff and plan out a service uninterrupted.  Not sure that is quite the point though!

    Have any loyal or visiting readers any thoughts to share on similar intiatives?  If so, please comment!

     

  • Mosquito Bytes

    'If you think you are too small to be effective, you've never been to bed with a mosquito'

    This is a quotation used (at least) twice during the recent Baptist Assembly and probably the thing that stuck most firmly in my mind.  Perhaps because my church is small, perhaps because I went alone (big aah!) it is easy to feel insignificant and powerless at precisely the same time as valuing being part of something bigger, more diverse and more dynamic than the everyday experience of church life.

    What follows is not deeply theological, or even the product of deep reflection, but it is a few bytes from this particular mosquito!

    The theme of Centring the Margins was a powerful and challenging one, and many times we were asked to think about our own 'do not cross' boundary lines and comparing our ways with those of Jesus.  Sad irony then, that the timing of assembly had been carefully chosen because the character of Brighton on Bank Holiday Monday (when it actually poured with rain and there was not a soul to be seen) might offend the sensibilities of nice Christian folk and that the venue was so far south it effectively excluded any 'people in the pew' with neither the opportunity or finances to travel from the North or Midlands in time for a mid-Friday start.  The message was good; we have far to go in living out the words...

    As is the way of these things, the seminars varied in style and quality but did seem to be well attended.  Although I left most feeling rather disappointed by the input I'd received, being present among around 200 others from small churches and hearing just snatches of what they are doing was affirming.   Two hundred mosquitoes - now there IS a scary thought!

    The main meetings were pretty much as as expected but prompted two more flippant, even amusing trains of thought. 

    A friend who works in an adjacent Association bemoaned his failure to circulate 'Baptist Bingo' cards with names (or first lines) of the hymns and songs we were bound to sing.  From 'Be Thou my Vision' and 'When I Survey the Wondrous Cross' to 'Light of the World' and 'King of Kings, Majesty', by Sunday night he reckoned he had a full house!

    Then there emerged among a group of us final year NAMs: 'what do you wear when you go for your handshake'?  Big stuff this, never mind theology of ministry!!  We found some enlightenment as we watched the "Mish Kids" climb on stage arrayed as princesses, fairies, spidermen and Willie Wonker.  The question now is, do I opt for 'Princess' or 'Cat Woman'?!

    It was good to meet up with friends, to catch up on news, to be part of the bigger Baptist family.  Although now I seem to be faced with a double dose of work to catch up on, although parts of it were disappointing, frustrating or downright annoying, it was well worth going and as a lesser mosquito in the mosquito that is the BUGB, it is good to be reminded that our bite matters!  Just need to avoid the Deet of lethargy and apathy...

  • Baptist Assembly (Updated 27th April)

    Friday sees what is now a rare event - I will be travelling on a train!  This means a 20 - 30 minute car journey to the nearest station but hopefully a relaxing journey down to Brighton to meet up with dozens of other Baptists.

    I am looking forward to seeing friends from across the Associations and catching up on news, as well as seeing what the new 'Prism' stream looks like.  Should be fun.

    Any former (or current) NBC folk - hope to see you at the reunion on Saturday lunchtime at the Metropole. If not, no doubt we'll bump into each other at some point ... 

  • Rumbled! And Enthused.

    Well, the best laid plans of mice and humans are bound to fail and depsite my best efforts to disguise the location of Dibley one of my nice deacons has found this site and blown my cover - which means I now have to be even more careful what I say ;-).  Welcome Sue!

    Still, today has been a positive one and our Pentecost Party planning meeting left me feeling enthused - at least in its common meaning - about this upcoming event.  Of course we would probably like a bit of theological enthusiasm too, provided it's not so much it scares away the punters.

    The planning team is doing a great job and has already booked all sorts of stalls and events - from face painting to flower arranging and from croquet to the police and fire brigade (presumably in case the tongues of fire get too out of hand).  We have calculated and recalculated the number of scones and volume of cream we will need as well as discussing PA equipment, first aid and marshalling.  It was a good meeting and I came away with very little to do - a sure sign that people are taking ownership and making this happen themselves.  It was a good feeling, we are a small church and a smaller team but have grasped a big vision and people are working hard to make it happen.

    My main task is to plan the open air service for Pentecost Sunday and although I have a few ideas, it all feels quite vague at present.  I want something that is creative and accessible to any guests who join us whilst still suitably reverent to take place in the grave yard which was once the site of our first and second buildings (the one we closed last summer was evidently our third).  I have ideas about bubbles and kiddies windmills but apart from that, not much as yet.  So enthusiasm, reasonable or otherwise (that's a Wesley pun in case you didn't notice), what I really need is some inspiration - or ideas on postcard!  Watch this space for more news as the events unfold.

  • A Very Itinerant Easter (and a very l-o-n-g post)

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    This year Easter has been a very different experience as every step of the way we have been in a different venue with different people.  What has struck me about this is that in some ways this is more like the gospel record and less like nice traditional churchy Easter rituals.
     
    On Palm Sunday we met in our familiar setting of the primary school.  I kept it fairly traditional, partly because the previous two years I’d made it quite creative and partly because this year we have had a lot of ‘one off’ services – I felt people might like at least one point of relative stability.  That said, I did try to get them to offer statements of praise out loud as our ‘prayers of approach.’  I don’t know how many people joined in, as I did give them permission to whisper rather than shouting!  It was a far cry from the Palm Sunday exuberance recorded in the gospels.  Maybe I don’t have the ability to stir up a crowd, or maybe someone else has more ‘power’ in keeping them quiet - who knows?  Anyway, I finally delivered my thoughts on the two crowds and the quiet, focussed Jesus who was the only one who was clearly authentic; the still centre amidst the hubbub.
     
    Tuesday was the final lunchtime prayer meeting and my loyal group met at the manse to ponder the Beatitudes for the last time and share in a soup lunch.  Over the six weeks we raised £100 in donations (including some from the two Monday evening events) which we will split between The Leprosy Mission and BMS Relief Fund.  I hesitate to compare the manse to Bethany but it has been a place of quiet fellowship, and the homemade soup (they frown if I serve bought stuff!) has gone down well.  This is the third year now on this pattern and I am wondering how we can build on it without it turning into a dull routine or a tiresome burden – maybe a monthly meeting would be possible year round but with weekly prayers in Lent and Advent as at present.
     
    Maundy Thursday and for the second year running we joined with Dibley + 1 mile and Dibley + 2 miles Baptist churches for a supper and communion.  Dibley + 2 is currently undergoing major refurbishment and looks like a building site; it will be lovely when it’s done and will see the fellowship there move into a new phase of their mission and ministry as their former ‘sanctuary’ becomes a multi-purpose space.  As a result of the building work, there was limited electrical power and lighting, and as dusk gathered the candles were lit as we shared an Iona meditation Remember Me Today led by members of the host church followed by a simple, if rather “liturgical” communion.  The meditation was quite powerful.  As I leant against a pillar while we sang ‘When I Survey The Wondrous Cross’ and the last hints of daylight gave way to flickering tea lights, and again as chairs were shuffled round for us to pass the plate of bread, I had a sense that this was somehow closer to the Upper Room than many, if not most, Maundy Thursday services I have or will experience.
     
    Good Friday – the Churches Together children’s event with adult crèche – or so one of the vicars calls it.  This year I was overseeing the adult side and decided to have a bit of a change from the previous two (or more!) years, adapting a service offered in the Roots resource material.  Trying to coordinate readers and participants from five churches was interesting but my Methodist and Anglican colleagues were (on the whole) very helpful.  The service was quite visual, but I was particularly struck by the some of the audible aspects.  The sound of the nail being hammered through the titulus echoed through the building and the sound of the curtain being rent in two was also quite effective.  Despite the 15 minute delay as we waited for the children to re-join us at the end of the service, it seemed well received and the quiet period acted as a helpful bridge between our serious reflecting and the children’s frolicking.
     
    Easter Saturday – or Holy Saturday for purists - was as liturgically unsound as possible!  My little sister, who refuses to eat hot cross buns except on Good Friday, because she asserts it’s liturgically incorrect, opted to have a 40th birthday party on this date (and it wasn’t even near the day of her birthday!).  Had to be a party pooper and leave early in order to drive back from the well inside the M25 - I needed to be up early on Sunday (maybe unlike us here, Hertfordshire URCs think God has a lie in on Easter Sunday!).  An interesting experience because I actually find the ‘lost-ness’ of the Saturday quite an important part of the whole Easter experience.
     
    The Easter early service was a joint Methodist-Baptist event with my colleague leading Communion and me preaching.  I chose to use the whole of Mark 16, including the ‘longer ending,’ to pick a theme of a ‘never ending story’.   I always fancied composing my own synthesised gospel story in a style that combined the styles of the various writers: kai euthus, meta tauta, egeneto... (Just to prove my slog through trying to learn NT Greek wasn’t totally wasted, despite the fact that this text editor doesn't allow me Greek letters!) – I guess Mark 16: 9-20 almost does this.  The sermon almost got missed out – my colleague got so carried away with his prayers and Nicene Creed that we had to slot the sermon back in rather hurriedly before he got too far into the communion liturgy!  Just as well I’d kept it short (as requested) and felt sufficiently confident to abandon my notes and simply talk.  Sadly only a handful of my people chose to attend, and the whole congregation less than 20, but the Methodists were good hosts and the sermon well received.
     
    Sunday evening and Dibley plus 1 mile for third ‘date.’  A good day for it, being such a significant place it the Christian calendar.  A very skilfully led reflection on John 20: 1- 18 invited us to note how each person who came to the tomb saw a bit more than the one before until, finally, Mary as the apostle to the disciples not only saw and understood but was commissioned to go and tell.  I wonder, though no allusion was made to it, how each ‘date’ between our two congregations maybe allows us to see and understand a little more of what God might be saying about the future of our two fellowships?  I guess only time, and a few more trips back and forth, will tell.
     

    Tomorrow is Easter Monday and a chance to pause!  I guess in some sense Jesus has already gone ahead of to ‘Galilee’ and will meet us there.  In the meantime, it has been a very different Easter with a sense of ‘borrowed rooms’ that all too often is lost as we meet in our familiar places for our familiar routines.  Whilst I have missed the freedom to create a ‘whole’ Easter experience, I have benefited from being less a leader and more a participant.  Whilst other Easters have been far more significant at a personal/spiritual level, this one has brought its own insights, for which I am grateful.  The gospels show Easter as a time when donkeys, rooms and even graves were borrowed whilst people travelled back and forth along the way to understanding just what was happening; as we’ve met in borrowed rooms and travelled the odd mile or two between services, perhaps we have in some way had an experience of Easter that extends beyond what we’d anticipated or would ever have engineered.