Recently I came across a rules list for a junior youth club, and was reminded of the list that I saw on the wall of one of the rooms of our building soon after I arrived here - a list that had hung there for at least five years after the demise of the club to which it referred (nuff said).
The list on the chapel wall, so far as I recall began "no swearing" and the list I came across recently began "running is only permitted in the large hall." Now these rules are fine, though the problems that prompted their imposition seem self-evident, but hardly my idea of 'rule 1'. In each case some way down the list was something along the lines of "show respect to everyone" or "treat others as you would wish to be treated." Now, I might be a bit pedantic, but I'd have thought that these ought to have appeared higher up the list than "no balls games in the sanctuary" or some such similar thing. Surely the list of rules needed is pretty minimal, as a good 'rule 1' will negate the likes of 'no name calling' or 'no thumping or kicking.'
Rule 1 - Love God with everything you have ,and love others as you love yourself (God via Moses)
Rule 1 - Love one another as I have loved you(God via Jesus)
I am challenged to look at lists of rules that we draw up and to see what our implicit priorities are. Restricting running to the large hall probably makes good sense, but if we love/respect each other and other people's property then it will follow on, won't it?